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Practical guidance for men in marriage crisis. New episodes monthly.
- Ep 35
5 Blind Spots That Are Costing You Your Marriage
Here’s something I want you to hear before we get into this: most of the men I coach aren’t terrible people. Their wives aren’t terrible people…
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The Ultimate Goal Of Every Husband
“If I asked you, ‘Do you love your wife?’ — you’d probably say yes without hesitation. But what is the ultimate goal you’re working toward as a…
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Why The Husband Makes Or Breaks The Marriage
Women initiate 69% of all divorces. Why is it so often the wife who leaves? And what does that tell us about the husband's role in making or breaking…
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Destination vs Journey Goals
Here’s a conversation I’ve had more times than I can count: a man knows exactly where he wants his marriage to end up, but he keeps failing the…
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How To Forgive Alone & Why You Should
“Forgiveness is one of those words we throw around without ever really defining it. We talk about it in vague, emotional terms. What does it actually…
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How To Heal Your Wife's Midlife Crisis
A Coaching Learnings installment from Husband Help Haven
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How To Validate Your Wife
This one’s for any man who’s heard, “You need to be more validating.” I lay out why our default fixer response—solving the problem the moment our…
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Is This One Word Poisoning Your Marriage?
## Episode Recap Today I’m calling out a mental trap that quietly derails a lot of marriages—especially during reconciliation: confusing “shoulds”…
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You've Been Lied To About Your Marriage Problems
## Episode Outline (At-a-Glance) 1. Opening & the cultural lie about “unfixable” problems
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You Get Exactly The Marriage You Deserve
Are you secretly sabotaging your own marriage? In this episode we explore the provocative idea that “you get exactly the marriage you deserve.” By…
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How Good Couples End Up Divorced
Are you wondering how good couples end up divorced—seemingly out of nowhere? In this episode, we uncover the hidden pattern behind “back-burner”…
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Three-Word Phrases Every Wife Needs To Hear
### Episode Description: Do you need help reconnecting with your wife? Maybe you need to know some specific things to say to your wife to navigate…
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5 Reasons You Might Decide To Be Done Waiting For Your Wife
How do you know when it really is time to be done waiting for your wife to come back? This is the other side of the question answered in the previous…
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6 Reasons To Keep Waiting For Your Wife To Come Back
Do you ever question if it’s worth waiting for your wife to come back? Does it feel like your separation is dragging on indefinitely? We all need to…
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How Much Longer Until She Comes Back?
“Stephen, I know you can’t tell me an exact timeframe, but based on your experience, how much longer do you think this separation will last? How long…
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Marcus Farris Shares His Journey Through Separation, Infidelity & Divorce
It was a privilege of the highest order to host Marcus on today’s podcast. If you like hearing his insights, be sure to check out his new book that…
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From Friendship To Attraction Once She's Started Coming Back
In the last episode, we talked about how to get out of your wife’s friend zone when you’re early in the separation… But what about when you’re…
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Stuck In Your Wife's Friend Zone? Here's What To Do
“Stephen, my wife and I get along great, but she has no attraction to me. I think I’m stuck in her friend zone. What should I do?”
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Thankful In No Man's Land: The Key To Waiting For Your Wife
Thankfulness and marital separation seem like they’d go together about as well as oil and water… What could you possibly have to be thankful for when…
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Holidays During Separation: 7 Tips
The holidays can be tricky when you’re separated. Made worse by the fact that the new year is often a time where a separated wife may choose to move…
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How To Forgive Your Wife Through Broken Boundaries
Today’s episode is in response to a recent question I got from a guy named JD. Basically, his wife is doing things that he feels are truly…
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How To Have An Open Conversation During Separation
Today we’re answering three reader-submitted questions:
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Doing The Hard, But Good Thing
Today’s episode is a little different. Instead of direct separation-related strategy, we’re going to talk about two important reasons to do the hard,…
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3 Unconventional Ways to Rebuild Trust During Separation
Today we’ll talk in-depth about trust and 3 powerful ways you can rebuild it with your wife, even during separation.
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5 Reminders To Help Endure A Long-Lasting Separation
How do you endure a separation that drags on for months on end? In today’s episode, I’m sharing the 5 most common reminders that I give to men who…
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- Ep 9
Get Your Wife Back With Boundaries
Today we’ll be wrapping up the Get Your Wife Back With… series with a look at enforcing boundaries during separation.
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Get Your Wife Back With Friendship
Can friendship pave the way back to a happy marriage? In the fourth episode of the Get Your Wife Back With… series, we’re looking at how to get your…
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Get Your Wife Back With Fatherhood
How do you get your wife back with fatherhood? Can stepping up as a father help you rebuild connection and trust with your wife during separation? If…
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Get Your Wife Back With Space
In the second episode of our 5-part Get Your Wife Back With… series, we are taking a look at how to get your wife back with space. No, I don’t mean…
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Get Your Wife Back With Attraction
The first of a five-part Get Your Wife Back With… series, in this episode we will talk about how to get your wife back with attraction.
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Separation Strategy Part 4: Rebuild Trust One Step At A Time
Why is trust the #1 thing we focus on throughout the 3+1 Separation Strategy? Why is trust so important in rebuilding the foundation of a future…
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Separation Strategy Part 3: Show That Man To Your Wife
With self-control and self-improvement in place, we begin looking at how you can start showing your wife the man she could have if she stays.
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Separation Strategy Part 2: Become The Man You Want To Be
The second step of the 3+1 Separation Strategy is all about self-improvement. With self-control firmly in place, we can harness that discipline to…
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Separation Strategy Part 1: Stop The Desperation, Find Your Focus
We’re kicking off the Husband Help Haven Podcast with an in-depth walk through of the 3+1 Separation Strategy.
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